But if they will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses. If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church,..."—Matthew 18:16, 17a (NIV)
If the offender has not listen to you alone, then they're rarely willing to hear anyone else,...they're much more likely, to see this confrontation as an attempt to turn others against them. They go from victimizer, to victim,...and if you thought you had trouble with them before,....baby look out! But the key to remember here is; this is not your fight or battle. When God calls you to move, move. Whether it works out for you or not, is not the issue,...God is working on them,...and you.
Jesus' teachings truly are hard,...that's why so many simply walk away dejected.
Holy Spirit, help us to act out of love. And help us to stand,...and follow God's way to reconciliation, regardless of the immediate outcome. Amen.
"It's nice to be important,...but it's more important to be nice."
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